The girls are growing quickly and both are blossoming into tiny little young ladies already.

Shayne loves to pick up pieces of paper and lint and put it in the trash can. She is growing quickly and though she is the smaller of the two sisters, she is mighty. It seems she can scale walls like Spiderman and open any container she sets her mind on opening. She eats everything in sight.

Norah loves to mop and vacuum the floor with mommy. She is long, lean and beautiful. She loves to talk whether it makes sense or not. She is a performer and thrives on making people laugh.

Both love to go "SIDE!" That means, outside. And nothing makes them smile more than the sight of daddy coming home from work. They always expect that he will turn on the "teewee" for them (T.V.) - something mommy rarely ever does.

They'd just turned one when we'd brought them home and now we're already looking at their fast approaching second birthday.

It's hard to put into words the awe by which we look upon these miracles everyday. They are the joy of our lives and we continue to wish that time would slow down a bit so we can savor their littleness.

6 month anniversary of our homecoming

It's been six months since we landed at LAX with our family number doubled. Tomorrow, we have the privelege of having the girls baptized into our covenant family. We'll share a brief account of God's faithfulness to us and our prayers for the girls:

Cameron and I recently celebrated our 6 year wedding anniversary. We are the proud parents of our daughters, Shayne and Norah, who were born in China and given to us through adoption.

At the time that we had hoped to grow our family, God revealed to us that it wasn’t His plan to build it with biological children. Cameron had taken this opportunity to plant seeds in my heart regarding adoption. He had to plant seeds because though he was gifted with a strong desire to adopt even as a young adult, I’d had my reservations. Through prayer, Godly guidance, and the perfect circumstances, God allowed me to soon share this same desire.

Three years ago, we started down a long journey towards bringing home a daughter from China. This past October, God surprised us with a double blessing and a referral of twins. This past week, we celebrated the 6 month anniversary of our homecoming. The ease by which it has been to welcome these children into our home has been a total confirmation that Shayne and Norah were designed just for our hearts. We have been so blessed with what God has entrusted to us.

They were given the names, Qi Tuan and Qi Yuan by their orphanage in China. Qi – is the Chinese character for hope, or to pray. Tuan and Yuan put together, Tuan Yuan, means family circle. Or, if you say you’re attending a Tuan Yuan, you’re attending a family reunion. We don’t know the exact reason that these names were given to them, but we think the name-giver may have had a hope or assumed that the biological mother hoped that these two girls would remain united as family.

We find it appropriate to now unite them with our Covenant family through the sign of baptism. What a pleasure and great blessing for us to be able to do so here at Grace Presbyterian Church in beautiful Pasadena.

Here are the prayers that we will pray for them at the baptism:

We named one daughter after an attribute of God and the other after an attribute we would like them to demonstrate throughout their lives. Our prayers for each girl are certainly for both, but we’d like to share our desires as they are significant to each name

Shayne’s name means: God is Gracious
Our prayer for Shayne is that she would grow to understand and embrace God’s grace, lavished on us with all wisdom and understanding (Eph 1:7-8), the grace by which she is saved. That she would boast only in the Lord (Eph 2:8-9) and stand in His grace (Rom 5:1-2) As she becomes a woman, may she grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. (2 Pet 3:18)

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We're home!

We arrived safely home Friday afternoon. Po-po and gong-gong (Shayne and Norah's grandma and grandpa) picked us up from the airport. The flight was long, but fairly uneventful, praise the Lord:) After dinner on the plane, we changed the girls into PJ's. Norah slept well in the little bassinet they hung from the wall (her long legs hanging out from the edge), and Shayne slept on top of mommy most of the ride. She didn't even mind my occasional cough. I watched the Incredible Hulk twice zoning in and out of sleep. We made it to LAX and thought the arduous trip was over. Then, we saw the line to clear their visas. Cameron and I contemplated letting the girls scream and cry so that the airport security would consider working faster. Unfortunately, Shayne and Norah waited patiently.

Cameron commented that they seemed so relaxed despite their new environment. I wonder how much of it had to do with the fact that mom and dad felt relaxed and relieved to be home sweet home. We showed them their room, their cribs, our room and opened a new toy. Then, the dog came home from the groomers. Indi was CRAZED with excitement. Good girl, she was quite gentle with the babies. It took them a while to get acquainted with the idea of a pet. Before the adjustment, Norah went wiggly running opposite of the dog, eyes wide open, arms flailing and screaming. It was hilarious. It was only a matter of hours before all three played in peace.

We went to Sunday service today. It's early in our return, but it seemed appropriate to worship our heavenly Father on Thanksgiving Sunday. It was heartwarming to introduce the girls to all their aunties and uncles who have been praying so diligently for us!

million photos

Have a million photos to load up and share with you all, but just haven't had the time. Actually, I've gotten sick the last couple days. Coughing and sniffling. Patience is short because nothing is more frustrating than trying to get a kleenex to your nose when your hands are full. Anyways, would you all keep me in prayer? Otherwise, Cameron's going to be flying home with three babies!!! Please pray that we'll pack appropriately for the flight as well.

BTW, they're doing wonderfully. Norah's made leaps and bounds these last couple of days. She's swinging back and forth when I sing, she's holding our hand, giggling, gleeful when we pick her up from a nap or from her sleep at night. Shayne's learned to blow kisses and can put her finger up and say "Shhhhh!". She also likes to mess around with Norah when we're trying to make them sleep - then, quickly puts her head down when I walk in the room - what a little prankster.

We leave tomorrow morning on a train to Hong Kong. Spend the night there. We'll be having dinner with extended family. Then, the next afternoon, it's off on our long flight. I plan to make friends quickly with our neighbors. I've brought plenty of earplugs to share just in case.

Promise more pictures soon. Lots of love to you for all your support! Carolyn

schedules

In our prayers last night, we asked that God would give us greater wisdom regarding the immediate needs of the girls. We're on a nice schedule now and the girls are responding wonderfully. We hope this will make for a smoother 15+ hour flight home. Then, we'll finally be home to start all over re-establishing their schedule, and ours:) Yippee.

Mourning

As we’ve learned, these precious little people will go through a mourning process. Each child processing in their own way. Shayne and Norah couldn’t be more different in how they’ve coped the last few days. Shayne is small and feisty. Her first afternoon and evening home with us, she cried, got distracted, cried, got distracted, cried, cried, cried. Our ride home from the Civil Affairs Office was smack in the middle of evening traffic. It was long and I’m sure part of her crying was due to road rage – already an L.A. girl, huh? But she wasn’t happy. In fact, she was downright mad. Slowly, but surely, smiles and giggles have increased in frequency. Starting late yesterday, she loves grabbing onto mommy and daddy’s legs or hands when she’s walking her wiggly walk. Food makes her oh-so-happy too. Her favorite practical joke is to poop right after mommy’s done cleaning and changing her. Sigh. Norah is truly gentle and quiet. She reached her hand out to pat her crying sister numerous times the first day. She ate, she drank, she found walking and falling on her butt just great. She seemed content to be held by any of us, even by some of the other parents (they can’t seem to help but steal her frin ys – she’s so cute). A little bronchitis hasn’t seemed to phase her either. But it’s obvious that she’s mourning in a very different way. Yesterday and today, she became very aware of her unfamiliar environment. She wants to eat only jook (porridge) and sweeter fare. We know that she was given porridge daily by her caretakers, so I’m assuming she’s finding it familiar and consoling. Her paperwork also indicated (unlike Shayne’s) that she had two very good friends in the orphanage named “Ji Hua Zu”, and “Ji Hao Shuang.” Notes also indicated that she was particularly close to three caretakers, including Ms. Li. Norah’s cry – it’s clear that it’s a mournful cry. I don’t know how to describe it, but it’s very clearly a deep, soulful cry. She’s sleeping right now…I rocked her to sleep in my arms after one of these episodes. I’d promised myself before these last few days that I wouldn’t cry in frustration. But I didn’t think I’d struggle with crying in empathy. Dear Norah’s cry brought my heart to learn more of what they must be going through, and maybe even what Ms. Li or Norah and Shayne’s biological mother may be experiencing. Shayne’s out shopping for Norah’s clothes with daddy. I will stay here, in hopes that my presence will show Norah that we will do our best to love and care for her in her new life at home with us. And that we will also embrace her past. We’re exhausted. As we enjoy the girls, we’re still trying to see – two naps or one? mix formula with cereal or straight formula? snip open the nipples or leave it alone? More bananas for you, and more fiber for you. Don’t forget the sunscreen, oh no, where’s her sock? But God has truly been gracious. He’s granted us excellent health, travel mercies, wonderful support and precious little ones to look after. The girls have been extremely understanding as well. Now, how can I convince one of these hotel housekeepers to come home with us? Thanks, Mike and Nanci, for lending us the Ergo and giving me a grab of those diaper ziploc thingies. Thanks, Ryan and Sarah, for the camera to catch priceless moments. Thanks, mom, dad, Marcus, Bonnie, Megan for the RMB. Thanks, sister Evelyn, for the gobs of clean hand-me-downs. Thanks, Scott and Stacey, for the poppy, linky toys – it doesn’t get old with these girls. Thanks, TPC group, for the backpack carrier – Cameron’s out with one right now!

Built in playmates

Last two days have been busy with appointments to register and notarize documents, apply for Shayne and Norah’s passports, doctor’s appointments, shopping at the local grocery, clothes for Amazon Norah (she hardly fits anything I brought). Today, Thursday, is our first day to completely relax with the family. Amidst the feeding, changing, bathing, napping, carrying, crying, hugging, snacking, document signing, bib and bottle washing, we’ve been able to capture a gazillion precious moments. One of my favorite moments was seeing the girls totally crack up at each other. Shayne handed over a stacking cup to Norah. Next thing you see, they’re throwing their heads back laughing so hard their little eyes disappear. More later on our bonding experiences…bottles are done – it’s diaper time. BTW, daddy, the more experienced diaper changer, has yet to change a poopy one.

Truly, madly, deeply in love…

With this cold pizza. It is sooooo yummy. It’s 5am Wednesday morning and the lovelies are asleep. The last two days have been the most beautiful, wonderful moments of our lives. And it’s left me hungry for nasty, leftover, junk food!
Let me start with Monday, “Gotcha Day”. We left Beijing on a 3 hour flight to Guangzhou early in the morning. 15 families, eager, excited, dazed, ready. Hotel lobby, bus to the airport, check in everyone’s overweight luggage, take a few elbows pushing our way to the gate, tram to the plane, load the plane, air traffic jam, three hour flight with a mystery snack, we’re in Guangzhou.
I have all of half an hour to doll myself up to go and meet the girls. Strangely enough, I want to look pretty for them. I think I caught Cameron checking himself in the mirror to make sure his outfit matched.
We make it to the Civil Affairs Office. Haven’t seen our babies yet, but several of us mommies were tearing up already. The daddies all had their heads down… “getting their cameras ready.” One by one they call our family names.
Oops, commercial break…Shayne’s now sitting on my lap with a bottle. 6am, on the dot…her wake up time.
Ok, one by one, our names are called and nannies walk in with gorgeous babies. Some crying, some still. Norah is asleep in her nannies arms. Shayne is awake, peering in every direction, turning her head towards noise. They’re dressed in matching pink outfits, small nametag attached, so as not to confuse one for the other, though they’re so different in appearance, it would be impossible. Shoes are pink and gold patent leather. They’ve obviously had more time to get dolled up than I did! Nannies hand over the girls. We get out of the way for other families and run to our corner with treasures in hand. Cameron and I can’t stop smiling and laughing. They’re precious. Moments later, we have a chance to speak with the nannies - it’s amazing that I didn’t need a translator. The nanny, Ms. Li spoke to me in Mandarin, heavily accented by her local dialect. I spoke to her in my obviously-didn’t-go-to-Chinese-school Chinese. It was easy to see how fond she was of them, referring to Norah as Tuan Tuan and Shayne as Yuan Yuan. She was eager to tell me what the girls like to do, about what makes them laugh, how they like to take their food, how beautiful they are. I emphasized our gratefulness for their good care – how it was obvious that the girls were loved. At the end of our conversation, she gave me her business card with her email address. She asked several times that I send her pictures of the girls growing up. At that moment, the girls were quiet and comfortable in our arms. It was heart-breaking for me to see Ms. Li go. For the girls, it will be a process for them, I’m sure, to realize that this was possibly the last time they saw the loving, caring mother they’ve known for the last 13 months.
We were told that Norah is quiet and gentle, likes playing with friends, loves sun-bathing and walking hand-in-hand with her caretaker. Sounds like someone mommy can get along with wellJ
Shayne is wide awake, peering in every direction. The paperwork we received months ago tell us that Shayne is active, likes to play with friends and loves the outdoors. Sounds like daddy’s little girl.
Interestingly, Shayne’s a bit more attached to mommy at this point and Norah is always looking for daddy!